What is the difference between a funeral and a memorial service?
In common parlance, a funeral is a memorial service where the body is present and prepared for burial or cremation. A memorial service is held when there is no body present, and there are either no remains present at all, or only cremated remains are present.
Is burial or cremation better for me and my family?
Burial vs cremation is a deeply personal subject and the choice between the two options will come down to the beliefs, values, and financial situation of the family that is doing the planning. Typically, cremation is chosen as a more economical alternative, but that need not be the only concern. Discuss with the funeral director to find out more information and to help you decide which option is right for your specific situation.
What if I am a veteran or the loved one I am planning for is a veteran?
Contacting the Eugene Vet Center office is typically the best way to start planning a service for a veteran. VA staff will be able to identify eligibility for VA burial or cremation benefits, as well as other forms of financial assistance. They will also provide resources for military funerals and burial in national cemeteries if desired/eligible.
Can I purchase multiple cemetery plots next to each other at the same time?
Yes, most cemeteries allow for the purchase of multiple plots next to each other. This is typically done when a family wants a row or section as a “family plot”.
What can I do to show my support and condolences in Eugene?
Often, options for supporting those who have experienced loss will include reaching out to them to express sympathy, sending a gift of a card or flowers, or helping to take care of meals, but how you choose to support someone during a time like this will be a deeply personal decision. It will usually depend on your relationship with the person who has passed or your relationship with the surviving family member. If you are not sure how to express your condolences, econdolence.com has a number of great ideas, including some links that will allow you to send flowers, a card, and gift baskets.
Do I need a burial permit in Eugene?
Oregon law does not require a permit for burial in established cemeteries. If you want to bury a body on private land that you own, you will need to get written consent from the county or city planning commission (or governing body, if there is no planning commission). The city or county may also require a record of burials on your land, and you must disclose the burials if you ever sell the property.
How much does cremation cost compared to a burial?
Cremation is typically a far more economical option than burial. In most areas, including Eugene, you can expect to pay about 70% less for cremation than for a burial.
Can you be buried without a casket in Eugene?
Oregon law allows you to be buried without a casket. Individual cemeteries may still require one, however, so check with the appropriate staff to find out.
How long will I be grieving the loss of my loved one?
The grieving process is a very personal matter that will vary from individual to individual, so there is no set timeline. Each person who experiences a loss will experience it differently, and it may be best to receive individualized help and support. Here are some resources for finding that kind of support for yourself or a loved one:
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